If you’ve seen the popular TV show Friends, let’s take a look at the special episode. When Rachel is teaching Joy to sail, she constantly yells at him and realizes that these were the same violent words her father used as a child.
On the one hand, there’s nothing wrong with repeating what your parents said as long as it’s healthy and positive. But the problem arises when those words are negative! Always control your language, what you say when you say to your partner. Also, keep track of your reactions and work on yourself, seek professional help if you think it is disturbing.
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