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In this article, we will share some ideas on how you and your partner can have the most colorful and romantic Holi ever!
Holi, the festival of colours, is one such celebration which brings joy and fun to everyone. Every year, this festival serves as an opportunity for couples to strengthen their bond and create beautiful memories. If you are looking for creative ways to make this Holi special for your partner, then you have come to the right place! Whether you’re having a small get-together or simply celebrating at home, there are lots of romantic ideas that can help make your day an extra delight. Here are some suggestions that you and your partner can try together:
- Set the mood with romantic music
Setting the tone is important for any romantic evening, and Holi is no different. Set the mood with some of your favorite tunes and create a special playlist specially tailored for the occasion. Humming along or taking turns singing will bring you closer and make Holi more special.
If your love life has taken a hit lately, then the playful nature of playing with colors on Holi is a great way to rekindle the spark between you and your partner. Take some time during the festivities to explore each other in ways you normally wouldn’t, like painting each other’s faces or playing with different vibrant colors. This type of playful pursuit will definitely heat things up in no time!
- Increase intimacy with massage and aromatherapy
Massage is great for physical and emotional intimacy, and what better way to enjoy the holidays than by spending some quality time together? You don’t even need to be a massage expert – learn how to perform basic massage techniques from online tutorials and create a space in your home where the two of you can relax and focus on the romantic moment. Don’t forget the essential oils! They naturally enhance the massage experience with their calming aroma.
- spice up your relationship with sex games
Whether you are looking for a naughty game to play or an interesting way to connect on a deeper level, these sex games will definitely help make Holi one to remember!
What better way to get into the Holi mood than a mischievous dice game? You can use two dice (or just one!) and let them guide you in taking things forward. Decide on only those numbers that correspond to certain actions. For example, rolling a two may mean a hug and a kiss, while rolling a five may mean stripping. Pleasure!
This classic game never gets old. You can turn it into an intimate relationship by taking turns asking each other questions or daring each other to do some risky things. Here are some ideas:
- Ask your partner if they want a massage from you
- dare them to kiss you in different places
- Ask your partner what their favorite sexual fantasy is
- challenge them to take a sexy selfie for you
- Add Extra Romance With Gifts and Flowers
Show off your romantic side by surprising them with something meaningful. A bouquet of her favorite flowers or a thoughtful token of your love is sure to put a smile on her face and make her feel special. You can also gift something that will remind them of this special occasion throughout the year. A handmade greeting card, a souvenir from your last romantic getaway, or a sweet memento of this precious holiday will always be cherished.
- arrange a romantic picnic
Spread a blanket under the stars and spend some quality time together. To make it more romantic, you can also light candles to set the mood, and bring some delicious snacks and drinks. A picnic is a great way to show your romance for each other, and Holi makes the perfect backdrop for a romantic evening. You can even get creative with your picnic ideas.
- Indulge in a relaxing spa treatment together
Book a romantic spa treatment for two so that you can celebrate Holi in style and relaxation. The spa offers a range of treatments from massages, facials, manicures to couples’ hot tub or Jacuzzi sessions. Taking time to relax together can be a great way for you to reconnect with each other in a peaceful, soothing environment. Even if you can’t make it to the spa, there are plenty of DIY recipes for spa treatments you can do at home.
Whichever way you choose to celebrate this Holi, remember that it should be filled with joy and happiness – so go ahead and make it special for you and your partner!
By playing with colors, we are not only reminded of our inner spark, but also connect with others, as well as harness our body’s natural capacity for joy. And it can be a powerful tool for improving our sexual health and well-being. So this Holi, approach the festival with an open heart, ignite your inner spark, and let it guide you on the path to better sexual health and a more balanced life.
Professor (Dr) Saransh Jain is a winner of the Swasth Bharat Ratna Award and is a certified and licensed sexologist by the American Board of Sexology. He is currently Senior Consultant at Dr SK Jain’s Burlington Clinic in Lucknow. The views expressed in this article are the author’s own and do not represent the stand of this publication.
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